romanticize
US /roˈmæntɪˌsaɪz/
・UK /rəʊ'mæntɪsaɪz/
B2 中高級
v.t.及物動詞浪漫化
Fairy tales romanticize the lives of royalty as easy
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不受歡迎的公主們與我們渴望的戀愛故事！💞 (Uninvited Princesses & The Dating Story We're Yearning For)
- You know, your focus had to be in one particular place, or you were daydreaming and you were—like, so I think we do romanticize it a fair bit in this idea that, like, all the relationships were more meaningful.
這讓我意識到，我總是在生活中追逐那樣的限制。
- You know, your focus had to be in one particular place, or you were daydreaming and you were—like, so I think we do romanticize it a fair bit in this idea that, like, all the relationships were more meaningful.
這讓我意識到，我總是在生活中追逐那樣的限制。
患有邊緣性人格障礙 (BPD) 還可能愛嗎？ (Is Love Possible When You Suffer BPD)
- Dating with BPD feels like trying to hold on to water. No matter how tight you grip, it slips through your fingers. One moment you're terrified they'll leave, the next you're pushing them away just to test if they'll stay. Why does love feel like both the cure and the poison? Well first, let's talk about what BPD really is. BPD stands for borderline personality disorder and it's a condition where one has difficulty regulating their emotions, suffers from high sensitivity to rejection, and usually experiences dysfunction in managing interpersonal relationships. We have a video on how to know when your partner might have BPD, so feel free to check it out. But that's only one side of the coin. When you have BPD and you're in a romantic relationship, there are a whole lot of problems that are not so easy to spot from the outside. Dating with BPD isn't just a challenge, it's a storm of contradictions. One moment you're drowning in love, the next you're gasping for air, convinced your partner will vanish. The fear of abandonment isn't just a symptom, it's a constant whisper in the back of your mind. We interviewed Magenta, who has BPD, about her experience with romance and well, she summarizes it perfectly. I suffer from abandonment issues all the time. I find myself always being worried if my special person is secretly getting tired of me. Quick disclaimer, we are not diagnosing anyone with BPD, nor are we here to romanticize the condition. Our goal is simply to explore the experiences of those navigating relationships while living with BPD, with empathy and understanding. BPD is a complex condition, drenched in extremes. You become very sensitive to stress in any kind of relationship. For those with BPD, love is both the anchor and the storm. This can cause them to have trust issues and negative feelings towards their partner easily after any kind of stressor. O'Leary, 2023, also mentions that relationship stressors can cause emotional dysregulation in those afflicted with BPD. A single misunderstanding can spiral into despair while a small gesture of love can feel like salvation. Magenta's words cut straight to the heart. When my mood changes, it can be frustrating because I can get so angry or too sad in just a moment. I know it's exhausting, not just for me, but for my partner. I get in a mode that I know is overwhelming for everyone. I hate it, but I can't help it. However, not everything needs to be a frustrating endeavor. It's the light in the chaos. People with BPD feel love with a rare electric intensity. It's a lens that can magnify beauty others might miss, too. Magenta glimpses this truth as well. I get to be a really sensitive person, so I can appreciate a lot of things in a way most people don't. It's like I find magic in normal things. A study by Bouchard and others showed that in about half of the studied couples where someone had BPD, both partners experienced satisfaction and tranquility in the relationship. O'Leary and others similarly found that BPD is often accompanied by a higher development of adaptive relationship skills. And when good coping methods were achieved, the relationships could be long-lasting and satisfactory. Therapy helps. Patience transforms. Being informed is crucial. But the real breakthrough comes when partners stop seeing BPD as the enemy and start fighting together. Magenta's plea cuts directly into the starting problem. They did not understand my insecurities, my jealousy, my mood changes, my need of constant reassurance. That I just wanted to be alone sometimes, but also feel loved and heard. Within the study by O'Leary, when couples showed openness toward discussing BPD, recognized negative patterns, and offered empathy to one another, their relationships strengthened and became manageable in the long term. In conclusion, dating with
與患有 BPD 的人約會，感覺就像試圖抓住水。無論你抓得多緊，它都會從指縫間溜走。上一秒你還在害怕對方會離開，下一秒你就把對方推開，只為試探對方是否會留下。為什麼愛情既像解藥又像毒藥？首先，讓我們來談談什麼是 BPD。BPD 是邊緣型人格障礙的縮寫，是指一個人難以調節自己的情緒，對拒絕高度敏感，通常在處理人際關係時會出現功能障礙。我們有一個關於如何判斷伴侶是否患有邊緣型人格障礙的視頻，請隨時查看。但這只是硬幣的一面。當您患有 BPD 並處於戀愛關係中時，會出現很多從外表不易察覺的問題。與患有 BPD 的人
- I find myself always being worried if my special person is secretly getting tired of me." Quick disclaimer: we are not diagnosing anyone with BPD, nor are we here to romanticize the condition.
2024年必看！十大現代黑白電影推薦！ (Top 10 Modern Black And White Movies)
- Belfast blends both moods in a story where nostalgia goggles can only romanticize so much.
貝爾法斯特融合了這兩種情緒，講述了一個懷舊濾鏡只能浪漫化一部分的故事。
- Belfast blends both moods in a story, where nostalgia goggles can only romanticize so much.
Hazanavichus 與攝影師 Guillaume Schiffman 一同捕捉了 1920 年代電影的樣貌與感覺。
觀看：歐巴馬總統在印第安納州埃爾克哈特鎮的市民會議！ (WATCH: Town Hall with President Obama in Elkhart, Indiana)
- Now, I think it's important not to romanticize what politics used to be like.
而且我現在可能已經將我需要貸款的金額減半了。
- I think it's important not to romanticize what politics used to be like. You know, if
閱讀有關湯瑪斯·傑佛遜對約翰·亞當斯的評論，或者人們對
內向 vs. 社交恐懼症：為何區分如此重要！ (Introversion vs Social Anxiety: Why the Difference Matters)
- The internet loves to romanticize mental health conditions.
如果你是內曏者，被逼著改變天性，那是會造成傷害的。
- Avoiding harmful labels the Internet loves to romanticize mental health conditions.
避免網路愛浪漫化心理健康狀況的有害標籤。
電影史上死於核彈的十大慘況！ (Top 10 Nuclear Bomb Deaths in Movies)
- The sequence powerfully captures the brilliant scientist's guilt over the carnage he's forced to romanticize and fear that the weapon could be turned on his own people.
有些將會永遠糾纏著你。
- The sequence powerfully captures the brilliant scientist's guilt over the carnage he's forced to romanticize and fear that the weapon could be turned on his own people.
這段情節強有力地捕捉了這位傑出科學家對他被迫浪漫化的大屠殺感到內疚，以及擔心這武器可能會被用在他自己人身上的恐懼。
6 讓妳依然單身的調情大NG！ (6 Flirting Mistakes That Keep You Single)
- it can easily turn bad if we over-romanticize our perfect type, having unrealistically high standards can make us miss out on someone great, because it only sets them up for failure.
如果我們把自己的完美類型過度浪漫化，就很容易把事情弄糟，不切實際的高標準可能會讓我們錯過某個優秀的人，因為這隻會讓他們陷入失敗。
- Gordon, we need to be careful of having high expectations of potential partners because while having high expectations can be good, like when it increases commitment and helps us behave more positively towards one another, it can easily turn bad if we over-romanticize our perfect type.
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獨居日記 // 紐約生活一日Vlog (Living Alone Diaries // a day in my life in NYC vlog)
- Since graduating college and living alone, I feel like that's kind of one of the main things that I've realized is how important it is to romanticize your own life and just kind of create fun experiences for yourself, even within your mundane activities and routine.
大學畢業後，我獨自生活，我覺得這是我意識到的最重要的事情之一，那就是讓自己的生活浪漫起來，為自己創造有趣的體驗，即使是在平凡的活動和日常工作中，這也是非常重要的。
- Since graduating college and living alone, I feel like that's kind of one of the main things that I've realized is how important it is to romanticize your own life and just kind of create fun experiences for yourself, even within your mundane activities and routine.
大學畢業後，我獨自生活，我覺得這是我意識到的最重要的事情之一，那就是讓自己的生活浪漫起來，為自己創造有趣的體驗，即使是在平凡的活動和日常工作中，這也是非常重要的。